Monday, July 30, 2012

Parks, Bottles, and New Best Friends!

Every day that goes by seems faster and faster than the day before. My baby girl is 3 weeks old today, and I still can't believe that it's gone by so quickly! We are all learning new things about each other, and I think we are all finally feeling comfortable with our new lifestyle. Each week, I will try my best to update everyone on all of the new and exciting moments that occur, so stay tuned each week to see what we've all been up to!

A lot has happened this week. I got the okay from my doctor to start driving again, so I no longer feel like we're trapped inside this house, and it also gives Rob a break from being our personal limo service.  We have the freedom to go where we please and it has definitely helped my sanity! I was really nervous to drive with Sophia by myself for the first time, but it actually wasn't too bad.  She slept the whole car ride, and I made sure to go about five miles per hour under the speed limit.  Yep, I'm one of "those" drivers now.

One of our big trips out of the house this week was a trip to Randall Oaks Park.  Rob, Sophia, and I had a picnic in the park, watched the birds, and enjoyed the outside for the first time since Sophia's birth! Even though it was a short amount of time, I really enjoyed this family time together.  Rob and I talked about how much fun it will be when she can run around and play with the other kids (or future brother or sister).

Sophia had her first bottle this week and loved every second of bottle time with daddy! I was a little worried that it would take her awhile to figure out how to use a bottle, but she drank every single drop of her 3 ounces of milk in about 7 minutes! I couldn't believe how quickly she adapted to the bottle! I am so glad that she enjoyed it though, because the look on daddy's face while feeding her was priceless.  He was all smiles and finally felt like he could do something important for his daughter. It was also nice for mommy to have a good four hour break from feeding! We will definitely include this in our bedtime routine!

We've had so many visitors coming to the house in the past 3 weeks, but Sophia finally met her first baby friend, Carly Rose, daughter of one of my best friend Stefanie.  Carly is 6 weeks old and we couldn't wait for the two to finally meet! I'm not sure if either one really noticed the other, but it was fun to take some BFF pictures of the two beautiful girls! I am sure that they really will be best friends as they grow up. It's so much fun to be able to share this experience of new baby girls with such a good friend.










Sunday, July 22, 2012

2 Weeks Old!

I can not believe that Sophia is already going to be 2 weeks old tomorrow! The time certainly has flown by, and we are learning new things about each other everyday. It's so much fun to be a mommy and discover and share every new moment with our baby girl.





Since coming home from the hospital, Sophia has experienced so much already.  She has a brand new surrounding that I think she's adjusted to quite well.  We were most surprised to see how Luigi reacted to the newest part of our family, and it seems like he absolutely adores her.  He is very protective of her, and checks on her frequently when she's sleeping or crying. I think they will really become great friends as Sophia grows with our family.






Sophia also experience her first bath at home.  The first few times we bathed her, she screamed and cried the entire time, but the other night when Rob bathed her she seemed perfectly content.  She didn't make a single sound, really seemed to be enjoying her bath.  Maybe it's Rob's calming effect that relaxes her.  Hopefully this will be a time we can all enjoy as it becomes a bigger part of our bedtime routine. 











Something we are all adjusting to is Sophia's eating and sleeping patterns.  She loves to eat and expects to be fed every 2-3 hours, day and night. Luckilly, after she's finished eating, she generally falls into a deep sleep, so those late night feedings aren't so bad.  She does sleep 3 hour stretches, so I'm getting about 8 hours of sleep all together which works for all of us.  Hopefully she'll get both of our sleeping genes, because we definitely LOVE to sleep!  Keep it up Sophia!




One of my favorite times during the day is when Sophia is wide awake in the morning.  We put together her activity mat, and she absolutely loves it!  Her favorite thing to do is look at herself in the mirror.  I swear she would stare at that mirror for hours if I let her.  I think it's really helping her focus her eyesight because she really has started to focus on what she's looking at.  We also have introduced Tummy Time, which I only let her do a few minutes at a time because I'm terrified she'll suffocate herself.  She is so strong, and it's amazing how much control she has over her neck muscles. I think she'll be lifting her head in no time. She's also developing some pretty amazing reflexes and gross motor skills.  When laying on her activity mat, she grabs for the different animals that are hanging down from it.  It's so cute to watch her try so hard to do such simple tasks!







I really can not express how in love I am with this little person!  I can't wait to see her develop her own personality and see which parts of her are from Rob and I.  We still can't decide who she looks like, so hopefully as she grows it will be more apparent to us. Watching Rob as a father has definitely been an amazing experience.  It's so cute when I hear him teaching her rap songs and different ways to flex her muscles.  She will definitely experience a life filled with love and joy.






Friday, July 13, 2012

Watch Me Grow!

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Thursday, July 12, 2012

Introducing: Miss Sophia Rose Patrick!

Hooray! She is finally here in this world and I am one happy mama!  She is absolutely perfect in every way imaginable!  Our pregnancy journey has come to an end, but this is just the beginning of all of our new lives together.  Here is birth story of Miss Sophia Rose Patrick:

So my due day came...and went.  I really thought for sure that we would be meeting her before July 7, but apparently Sophia had other plans.  Rob and I were going crazy waiting for any sign that I was about to go into labor.  Every cramp or wave of nausea sent me into a state of wonder.  We were doing everything possible from eating spicy food to walking around the entire neighborhood...anything to literally get her out of me.  To make matters worse, that week must have been the hottest week of my entire life, with temperatures soaring about 100 degrees.  I honestly thought that she was never going to come, and that this was all a cruel joke.  To pass the time, Rob and I watched almost 2 seasons of Breaking Bad, went for long walks, and played a game of Scrabble (that I finally beat him at).  We were going a little stir crazy.

Well during the infamous Scrabble game, I began having the dreaded Braxton Hicks contractions.  Dreaded because I'd been having them for days now and with every tightening sensation I freaked out and thought I was actually going into labor, which never actually happened.  So, around 9:30, after I won our game of Scrabble, we decided to go to bed.  As I was laying there the contractions seemed to be getting more frequent and closer together, so I decided to keep track of them.  Once they became 5 minutes apart, I called the Doctor, and she told me to wait a couple more hours and head on into the hospital.  I was over the moon excited that it was finally happening.  We waited a little longer and were on our way to meet our baby girl.

We got to the hospital around 4am and I was 2-3 cm dilated.  Dr. Beal came in and broke my water and the contractions began getting stronger and stronger.  I dilated to about 4 cm and was begging for an Epidural, which I believe was the biggest mistake of this labor process.  Once I got the Epidural, my contractions seemed less painful, and I was relieved, for a little while.  I started getting really bad back and hip pain, enough pain to actually scream out loud.  The doctor explained that Epidurals aren't really meant to relieve pain caused from back labor, so it was something I'd have to "deal" with.  Well, the pain was unbearable, and I was not happy about it.  I thought this magic drug would let me sleep and when I woke up I'd be ready to deliver my baby.  Well, I dilated to about 6 cm and my contractions started to slow down, so Dr. Salus decided I should have some Pitocin.  Once that kicked in, I was in even worse pain than before and kept saying that I was done, and that I wanted to go home.  The nurse suggested I get a dose of narcotics to help the pain. I really didn't care about the side effects at this point, I just wanted it to be over.  Once I had the narcotics, I felt soooo much better.  Unfortunately, the drugs didn't help the fact that I still wasn't dilating.  After 4 hours of painful contractions, I was still only 6 cm and my cervix was swelling.  At this point, the Doctor brought up the one thing that I in no way wanted, a C-Section.  Once she said the words, I burst into tears.  Nothing was going the way I had expected, and I was really angry that all of my plans were falling through.  After talking to Rob and realizing that the goal was to deliver a healthy baby, we decided that a C-Section might not be so bad.  One hour later, I was wheeled into the surgery room, and 45 minutes after that, I heard the most beautiful sound in the entire world.  After 20 hours of labor, I head the cries of our sweet little baby girl.  I instantly started to cry, and everything that I had gone through no longer mattered.  After a quick clean-up, Rob and I were presented with our baby, and I was instantly in love.  Sophia Rose Patrick was born at 5:57pm on Monday July 9, weighing 7 pounds 4 ounces. We had a beautiful and healthy baby girl.

After the surgery, I had to wait in the recovery area for what seemed like hours to meet our baby.  The moment I got to hold her was the best feeling in the world.

Rob and I stayed in the hospital for only 3 days, and because I was recovering so well, the Doctors allowed us to go home a day early.  The nursing staff said we were star patients and didn't want us to leave, but it was definitely time to bring Sophia home!

Even though we had an extremely difficult labor and delivery, I couldn't be happier.  We have been blessed with this perfect angel who has brought more love and joy into our lives than we've ever had before.  She has a full head of dark hair, smiles, and can even keep her head help up somewhat.  She loves to eat, snuggle, and she is a great sleeper, so far.  It is so much fun to watch Rob be her daddy, and I feel like he knows more about how to take care of her than I do.  He is truly amazing and I can't imagine doing this without him.  Our family is growing, and I can't wait for all of the new experiences and moments to share together.  Thank you God for sending us this bundle of joy.

Here are some pictures from our first few days together!

She scored a 9/10 on her APGAR score!

First family picture

Meeting Grandma Linda

Meeting Grandpa Don

Meeting Grandma Patty

Meeting Grandpa Rob

Daddy and Sophia

Mommy and Sophia


Time to go home!

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